Ok, so maybe it's debatable

Hello and welcome (Mom). Thank you for stopping by- even if by mistake :)

As a twenty-something singleton living in Portland, OR, one of the youngest, dreariest, and most single cities in the US (based purely on anecdotal opinion), I know I am not alone when it comes to the frustrations of the dating scene here. For the past four years I have unashamedly rocked this city as an independent, single, cat-loving chic who spends her weekdays helping others and her weekends in hot pursuit of a deserving chap. Recently, I've realized I'm dangerously close to accepting the title of a "crazy cat lady" if it means I won't have to put up with yet another unsuccessful date. In order to save my sanity and hopefully, my sex life, I'm turning to humor and the company of my laptop to counteract my many dating misfortunes that arise from the countless happy hours and boring introductions. Additionally, I hope to eventually introduce you all to some of my hilariously snarky girlfriends who inspired me to write this blog during our weekly bitchfest about boys and dating.

As we get to know one another (or should I say, as you begin to cyberstalk me more frequently) you will begin to likely see some patterns and get a feel for my personality. Nonetheless, I thought I'd share a little since well, this is a blog, which is a tool with only purpose- shameless self-promotion.

The first thing I'd like you to know is that I love lists! And in the spirit of list-loving I present my first one:

Teasers of What's to Come
1. Quirky behaviors I refuse to let go of though it may land the "one"
2. Would I date me?
3. Deal Breakers
4. Things to do on a first date to guarantee a spot on this blog
5. A poser's guide to dating in P-town

Mostly, I wanted to jot those things down so I don't forget about some of the things I've been thinking about writing. And, well, I hope to spark a little interest and anticipation out there.

Because today is one of those RARE, sunny days in November, I best get my buns outside!

Happy Dating,

LadyBird